Change can be a refreshing time of renewal, a time when we shed our fears and concerns about the direction our lives are taking, and just walk tall toward a new future. Review commitments to friends, family, and yourself, and get excited about your single life, all over again!!

Questioning yourself can become an important tool in raising your level of awareness and gaining control of your life as a happily single person. However, the questions you ask need to be honest with no concern as to how others may perceive your answers.

If you feel that you keep being disappointed with the people you are dating, take a step back from the situation and look at your ‘’list’’ of expectations. Here are a few things you can do that will help you stay centered while making your decision.

Change can become a catalyst and instead of taking care of everyone else’s needs you can begin to lay the groundwork for learning how to focus on yourself and on a better future.

No matter how hard we try to deny it, our past affects who we are as women today. Let’s focus on creating a new way of seeing relationships and being a single woman. Let’s create the kind of belief systems we want in our adult lives now.

Remember what it was like to just have fun and not worry about how you appeared to others? When just having fun was the objective? Now is the time to reclaim our enthusiasm for fun, fun, and fun!

Now is the time to reclaim your right to just have fun, fun, and more fun! Here are a few suggestions that may help you along your way.

Are you happy with the men you dated in the past, or are dating presently? If the answer is a resounding ‘’NO’’ the good news is that you can change things and begin looking for mates that are more suitable. (Responses to readers’ suggestions continues)

Let unhappiness guide you to a happier, and more fulfilled life. Here are five simple strategies to help show you how.

Some people feel that being single and living alone can feel like a negative rather than a positive choice. It’s time to find good healthy reasons why being single can be a stabilizing and harmonious experience.