Change can be a refreshing time of renewal, a time when we shed our fears and concerns about the direction our lives are taking, and just walk tall toward a new future. Review commitments to friends, family, and yourself, and get excited about your single life, all over again!!

Questioning yourself can become an important tool in raising your level of awareness and gaining control of your life as a happily single person. However, the questions you ask need to be honest with no concern as to how others may perceive your answers.

If you feel that you keep being disappointed with the people you are dating, take a step back from the situation and look at your ‘’list’’ of expectations. Here are a few things you can do that will help you stay centered while making your decision.

Change can become a catalyst and instead of taking care of everyone else’s needs you can begin to lay the groundwork for learning how to focus on yourself and on a better future.

No matter how hard we try to deny it, our past affects who we are as women today. Let’s focus on creating a new way of seeing relationships and being a single woman. Let’s create the kind of belief systems we want in our adult lives now.

Let unhappiness guide you to a happier, and more fulfilled life. Here are five simple strategies to help show you how.